Assumptions

The word assumption means "a thing that is accepted as true or as certain to happen, without proof".

So, why believe everything you hear.... it may be an assumption.  I'm tired of assumptions.  Just ask. But therein lies the problem.  We don't ask. This society is becoming a society where we don't have to talk face to face. Anything I put on social media can and will be construed as assumption.
Here's the thing though... if you ask me face to face, then you need to be ready for the answer.  It'll be true, honest, and maybe hard to take.  I will, however talk in that truth with love. I never intentionally mean to hurt  feelings. Unfortunately too many people don't get that. Don't get how to speak truth in love, or learn to receive it.

This blog isn't meant to be cryptic or anything...so don't make assumptions! I have been starting to clean things off of my plate. I need to. I'm not the person I am striving to be.  I need to take care of me, then take care of my husband.  Many of you know the journey we have taken in the last few years. I feel like I am beginning(just beginning) to get a handle on me, but now I need to help him.
He's doing great, but there are still things he struggles with. Things that I do not have his permission to disclose on a public blog, and that's okay. Those of you who are closest to us know his struggles.

Please know that if I or we choose not to do something that we are upset with you. That's not the case. Please ask us.  Please know that we may be asking some of you for some help on this journey. Especially those of you who have quietly stood by for so long.  Please invite us over, and if we can't come know it's not because we are avoiding you or mad at you. Know that social situations can be difficult at times, and know that earlier stresses of the day also play a part in how we schedule.